Friday, February 21, 2014

...and love is a word used too much and much too soon.

1. Life is beautiful and I smile at it because that's what people like me do. You know it's a beautiful life when your eyelids part and your eyes gaze at the golden radiant smile of the sun and a 'Good morning' from nature in different tunes.

 Sometimes, I think these birds at my window are trying to serenade me.

2. You are alive and that's refreshing and great because as much as some others wanted to, they didn't. Be thankful in your heart, even if your fat/thin lips can't have thankful words float on them. It's another day and you are here to witness it. Leave the nagging for the insecure people and soar on your own wings of positive thinking.

3. Don't worry about what the other person is doing or what they are not doing. Stay in your marked territory and stay the course as you run your race. Unhealthy comparisons are always a red flag because no matter how good you are, someone will always be better. We are not created/birthed the same. Some are birthed to different tribes, families and in different countries, so stay on your course, think about how to make life easier for others, and stop complaining about how bad things are.

4. It's a beautiful life and you are fortunate, if not blessed, to still be in it. Think good, happy thoughts because not everything is about you, and not every bad thing that happens to you is bad. Develop a better perspective; a godly perspective. Let life teach you lessons that you'll learn from nowhere else.

5. Stop telling everyone your secrets! Most people don't care. Tell them to those who you know, and trust, and those who will offer good counsel and support you in prayer. We are angels with only one wing and by embracing each other, we'll learn how to fly.

6. Understand that time is the most precious thing on this earth. Everything runs on time. Your dreams, ambitions, love, future run on time. It's the one thing that ushers you in to everything else. You can't buy it. When it's gone, it's gone; so don't waste something that you don't have on something you don't want. Yes, you don't have time and as surreal as it may seem, you could die. Not everyone gets to prepare for death. Live wisely!!

7. Love with your heart and a clean mind. Love, not lust after people in the name of love. Because you will hurt someone and leave them broken, and living in fear of ever committing to anyone. When in doubt, patience is always the oxygen you need to breathe in because it moves mountains, and patience will cure you from any rash decision. Love with your heart; be it broken, bruised, or lifeless, it has the ability to make you smile again and breathe life into your blood stream.

8. Forgive, because it's an expression of true love. Let it go. Yes, you were hurt, but holding on only worsens that hurt. Move on! after breakups. Yes, move on!  If they run back in to your arms, see it as an opportunity to start afresh. You can't love someone with old feelings. Feelings always tend to play tricks on you because it's their nature to be unstable. When people walk out of your life, let them go. But leave the backdoor open just in case they change their minds. We are humans and perfection is the one illusion we all think we can pull off.

9. Love is a word used too much and much too soon. Don't use it if you don't mean it.

10. Live your life. Live it! Please, live it. Don't settle. Love the one you love and stick with them because  sharing your life with someone you love with all of you, can prolong your life. -Fact

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